Is Your Past Holding You Back?
A certified Trauma recovery coach, a certified holistic narrative career counsellor and host to the Overcoming Your Story Podcast. I run Miriam Njoku Coaching and Consulting business. As a young business woman, I offer consultant and guidance services to the person going through a mental Trauma. I am also willing to provide my coaching and Consulting Services in Africa to the people who need it the most.
“The way you were raised might be holding you back today. You might have survived all your life, it is time to start living and thriving.”
Mental health is something people worldwide take for granted, although they might know very much about it. People face many situations where they go through mental pressure or breakdown. Little ignorance for mental wellness can create a big trauma affecting their life and personality in a big difference.
If you are struggling
- At work
- In your relationships
- You feel stuck
- You need support to develop yourself
I can help you. Trauma can make daily life stresses feel burdensome and in this past-pace times in which we live, releasing past traumas, clarifying your values and pursuing a purpose aligned with who you are can bring great peace of mind and a sense of living your life as opposed to suffering from it.
Through trauma informed coaching and holistic narrative career counselling, we work to provide drive and guidance to our clients so they may respond to challenges, improve relationships, find their purpose, pursue it and live a full and rewarding life after trauma. Our focus is on changing negative conditions and creating outcomes that are measurable, generating powerful solutions in a positive environment.
Learn Tools to Move from Surviving To Thriving
Come And Listen to Tips and Tools and the Stories of People That Will Give You The Courage to build a live you love.
IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW ARE CURRENTLY EXPERIENCING A MENTAL HEALTH CRISIS AND NEED IMMEDIATE HELP.
WHY CHOOSE ME?
You will gain awareness of your own autonomic nervous system so you can feel more in control of your experience.
You will learn regulating tools to support your nervous system back to a more settled place of inner safety and connection.
You will learn about parts work /inner child and ways to compassionately connect and support them.
Learn to create boundaries that leave you feeling safe and protected.
Learn about how to begin to attach safely to yourself and others
Thought work / Childhood Beliefs
Maybe you find that coaches:-
- keep re-running patterns of thought or feelings that are difficult to break
- experience insomnia, nightmares, recurring unhelpful imagery
- are emotionally disconnected
- become paralysed by fear or anxiety
- are overwhelmed by their past, and their emotions prevent progress
- or even become irrational, defensive or aggressive
There are many myths and misconceptions about coaching. Coaches are not experts ready to give you advice and we don’t replace our important allies – therapists. I am certainly no expert in life! If I were to call myself anything it would be resilient, having journeyed through crippling back injuries, cancer and personal trauma. I share those stories to remind clients that to falter is to be human. I’ve been described as raw, real and relatable and that’s more than okay by me.
MY COACHING METHOD
The partnership I create with my clients is sacred, spiritual and at times inexplicably magic. My coaching method is ontologically based, a cutting-edge approach that encompasses an understanding of how our thoughts, physiology and use of language impacts our results. This future-facing process is truly fascinating. Together we clarify long and short-term goals, identify barriers to success and co-create structure and accountability. I’m often asked about my secret to building a solid coaching practice and my answer is simple… my clients produce results and results sell. The rest… is all about relationship and leading with love.
Have a query? Please check this question and answers
Well, that’s a great question. The first thing that you should know is that I don’t consider myself an abuse survivor coach as much a Trauma Warrior Mentor. I don’t work with victims I help mold heroes out of the ashes of tragedy.
Childhood trauma and abuse stem from the negative impact of the actions of others on/with children. Trauma is not limited to only physical abuse like sexual assault, molestation, or fondling; it also encompasses physical violence against children like hitting, spanking, punching, pushing, and beating. The impacts of child abuse also come from nonviolent abuse like narcissistic behavior from adults, being talked down to, shaming, having right taken away, and being reprimanded or punished for healthy child-like behaviors.
This is a great question and the #1 reason that I mentor Trauma Warriors around the world, why are you stuck and how can we get you unstuck? Being stuck in The Vortex is the reason that you are not fully owning your potential and living the life that you want. The first step is possible once you understand the practical and real-life ways that you take that step.
As a mentor for adult survivors of child abuse, I think it would be a massive disservice to you if I didn’t have trauma. I am a survivor of child abuse. My story is not that different from many thousands of people in the world.
That is for you to determine. There are millions of adults aimlessly wandering with no real direction as to why they can’t control their habits, vices, emotions, and feelings after suffering from childhood trauma. Some Trauma Warriors want more from their life than dying with the question of “what if”. Trauma healing life coaching and mentoring can increase your quality of life, boost your self-confidence and self-esteem, pleasure, enjoyment, understanding, attitude, and energy. In addition, you may find your levels of stress, anxiety, depression, and ideations will slowly if not completely dissolve over time.